For when the texts don't add up
Stop guessing what
that text actually meant.
Screenshot a conversation from Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or iMessage. Get a green, yellow, or red flag with behavioral scores in under 10 seconds. Plus a suggested response that actually matches your tone. Free to start. No sign-up needed.
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Hey, I appreciate you being honest...
Jordan
You never listen to what I'm saying
Sam
If you really loved me you would...
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Your gut already knows something's off.
You've reread it six times. Texted your best friend a screenshot. Still no clarity.
Hot one day, gone the next.
You've analyzed that message from every angle. Warm one day, one-word replies the next. You're not imagining it. But you can't prove it either.
Your friends are over it.
You've sent the screenshots. The advice contradicts itself. Everyone has a theory. Nobody has clarity.
You're reacting, not responding.
Without a read on the pattern, you're guessing every time. Too eager. Too detached. Never quite right.
What flagg'd does
Other apps tell you what to say. We show you what's really happening.
Understand the pattern first. Then respond from confidence, not anxiety.
Know where you stand instantly
Upload screenshots and get a green, yellow, or red flag with scores across consistency, effort, respect, emotional regulation, and manipulation risk. No more wondering if you’re reading too much into it.
Know what to say back
Get a suggested reply that matches your tone and goals: confident, not reactive. Say what you mean in two sentences instead of agonizing over a paragraph.
See the pattern across conversations
Talking to multiple people? flagg’d remembers. Track who’s consistent, who’s fading, and who’s showing red flags you missed in the moment.
Your conversations stay yours
Nothing stored unless you choose. No selling your data. No training on your messages. No account required to start. This is the privacy-first alternative competitors don’t offer.
How It Works
Four steps. Clear signal.
Upload
Add screenshots of your conversation in chronological order
Analyze
AI reconstructs the thread and evaluates behavioral signals
Review
See your flag and subscores across consistency, respect, clarity, emotional regulation, and manipulation risk
Respond
Generate intentional replies aligned with your tone and goals
See It In Action
Watch a 60-second walkthrough.
Upload a conversation. Get your flag. Know what to do next.
Demo video coming soon
Early Beta Feedback
Real people. Real conversations. Real clarity.
6 weeks of mixed signals from a guy on Hinge. Uploaded the thread and the inconsistency score was a 3 out of 10. That one number gave me more clarity than all my friends combined.
Priya, 27 · Hinge
I was drafting a paragraph. flagg’d suggested two sentences that said exactly what I meant without sounding desperate. She replied in 30 seconds.
Marcus, 31 · Bumble
I kept making excuses for his texting. flagg’d tracked three conversations and showed me the pattern I was too close to see. Didn’t tell me to leave. Just made it clear.
Taylor, 25 · iMessage
Pricing
The most affordable conversation analysis tool on the market.
Start free. Upgrade when you're ready. Plans start at $6.99/mo.
Free
- 3 flag checks per month
- 1 AI response per check
- Up to 3 screenshots per check
- Blurred subscore preview
- 2 response styles
- Up to 3 saved contacts
Core
For anyone actively dating and navigating multiple conversations. Cancel anytime.
- Unlimited flag checks
- Unlimited AI responses
- Unlimited screenshots per check
- Full subscore breakdown
- 4 response styles
- Unlimited contacts with full profiles
- Spicy Flag Modifier
- My Patterns self-assessment
- Priority processing
Insider
For power users who want the full picture across every conversation. Cancel anytime.
- Everything in Core, plus:
- 4+ response styles
- Cross-contact trend analysis
- Advanced manipulation detection
- Behavioral pattern memory
- Pattern tracking over time
- Early access to new features
FAQ
Straight answers.
Green means the behavioral patterns look healthy: consistent effort, respectful tone, clear communication. Yellow is a caution signal. Some inconsistency or mixed signals worth watching. Red indicates elevated relational risk, including repeated boundary violations, manipulation patterns, or severe inconsistency. It is not a judgment of a person. It is a signal worth evaluating carefully.
Rizz apps tell you what to say. ChatGPT gives you a generic take based on whatever you type. flagg’d does something neither can: it reads the actual screenshots, scores the other person’s behavior across five dimensions, and then suggests a response based on what’s really happening, not just what sounds good. It’s analysis first, response second. And it tracks patterns across conversations over time, so you see what your friends can’t.
Any conversation you can screenshot. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, iMessage, Instagram DMs, WhatsApp, Snapchat. flagg’d reads the thread from your screenshots, so it works regardless of platform.
Conversations are processed securely. flagg’d does not sell data, train on your messages, or share with third parties. Nothing is stored unless you choose to save it. You can permanently delete all stored data at any time.
Built private by default. No account required to start. Screenshots are not transmitted or stored without your permission. Any stored data is encrypted. You maintain full control, including deletion.
No. flagg’d is a communication analysis tool, not a mental health service. It evaluates conversational behavior patterns. It does not provide medical, legal, or psychological advice. If you’re in a harmful or unsafe situation, seek professional support.